Destiny-swapping

The more visible you get, the more divinely protected you are from destiny-swapping. 

Destiny-swapping is when someone is consciously or unconsciously jealous of you and tries to hijack your life, and basically tries to beat you, which plays out the most for Chosen Ones in the empath-narcissist dynamic.

Because narcissism is a shame-based personality style, they will often see people who have a bright light and try to emulate that, and they will try to take everything from you that they lack. 

This could look like mimicking your exact desires and the things that you like in order to emotionally manipulate you to like them, and it could also look like trying to dim your light so you don't outgrow them. It could be as subtle as you deciding to go after your biggest dream and they go, do you really think that's the career for you? 

Same thing can play out in friendships, where they low-key will give you bad advice so you don't become more successful than them, or they start copying how you talk, the way you look, the way you dress. This can also play out with narcissistic parents who guilt-trip you the moment you start to prioritize yourself. 

The classic, I did everything for you and now you're just gonna abandon me for your career. Which means, when we are invisible, we are more vulnerable and susceptible to narcissists. Because unconsciously, we feel safer hiding out in their shadow than claiming the spotlight. Which is why the anecdote to destiny-swapping is visibility. 

Because when you go from the shadow to the spotlight, you have an energetic divorce from the leeches and the vampires. Because you're embodying your unapologetic power, and from there, nothing and no one can stop you. So this is your sign to get visible