Man and his pride

Why man Get married. Why don't men just stay single so they can fuck whoever, whenever, wherever?

Men want to look good for other men, if that makes sense. Men want to have a fancy suit, big house, fast car. He who dies with the most toys wins

Its talking about the suit, the car, the house, but it also includes the wife and the kids, the toys. Now, a lot of guys out there, maybe they did fall in love, maybe they didn't really want to get married and have kids and whatever

but deep down, really being honest, looking like a family man is more important than being one.

So, ask question?....

"Is he proud to know you or proud to own you?" Because one is love. The other is possession.

You deserve more than being someone's status symbol. You're not a box he checks off to look successful. Real love doesn't treat you like a shiny prize-it sees your heart, your soul, your fire. 

some men don't want a relationship, they want the appearance of one. But you weren't made to be part of his PR package. You were made to live, to rise, to be loved in truth-not owned in silence.

Stop being someone's performance piece

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What can a man get from a wife that he absolutely cannot get from a girlfriend? 

Mentality. Permanence. Covenant. Favor. Vows. Stability. Emotional and spiritual oneness. The greatest commitment between a man and a woman. Anointments. Principle. Morality. 

women will give all that to it without that marriage and that ring still. And so a lot of men don't feel incentivized to go to that next level because I'm getting all those things that you just said. 

Can I ask you a question? What's up? Don't most men require that before they say that they'll marry you, right? Because most men will say that. 

No, that's the thing. What happens is you allow a man to put you on layaway and you give him full benefits of you right now. You allow that man to eat at your all-you-can-eat buffet, and then you say pay later if you feel like it.

That's already full. I'm walking out. What the fuck I got to pay for? How many men have left you better than when they found you and you left worse?

Because you poured into that man and that man didn't have to pour into you. So what I'm saying is what you said is correct, but it's something about when you introduce a man with swag that changes all that.